Relationship Partnerships and Sacred Connection
When we Pair Consciousness with Relationship, we Create Divine Union.
We lived through matriarchal societal structures and women ruled.
We lived through patriarchal societal structures and men dominated.
Now it is time for A CHANGE –
Divine Union –
the masculine and feminine UNITE
balancing between us
and together we rise and give birth to a New World
Like the SUN and MOON orbit each other
Seemingly two opposing forces work together as ONE
When the moon and sun align, they can eclipse each other to create a force so powerful that humans across the world are compelled to look up
In no way is the light of either dimmed by the Union, even as a shadow covers the earth
We can hardly look at the eclipse and are blinded by the brilliance of the union
Male and female energies provide us with contrast, duality and polarity
To bring unbridled opportunities for growth and inner work
The eclipse of the Sun and the Moon is the overlap in the combined energy fields of the male and the fe-male.
The energetic fields overlap to create sacred space that reflects and mirrors self
We need to hold space for each other and allow for the ebb and flow
two seemingly opposing forces at work - to hold and let go
You cannot choose each other once – to go steady, move in, marry or make babies
You have to wake up every morning, go to sleep every night
The sun rises and the moon sets and the sun sets and the moon rises
Love as if you are a house with all of the windows and doors open
Love in such a way that the other feels free
Focus on the learning, trust the process and allow freedom of self-expression
Most of the time we are holding ourselves back from being completely honest
We fear that we might hurt or loose the other
Losing yourself is not helping
Stagnation leads us away from the lessons and learning,
freedom and fierce friendship,
and the truth and trust
we all so deeply desire.
Relationship is the guru of growth.
When we pair consciousness with partnership,
we revolutionize relationships
It is the ultimate mirror that shows us the truth.
It reflects back who we are
in effect of others and in our reaction to others
Relationships are with self, people, places, things, money, food, drugs, sex, disease, nature, animals, Consciousness, Cosmos and God.
Our relationships show up in our thinking, feeling, action and re-action.
If you don’t know what, where, when, why or who you are
Your relationships will tell you
Practicing self-awareness, spiritual responsibility and conscious choices
you can change yourself
and with that your relationships,
to reflect your new, higher level of consciousness.
You transform the lower energetic disturbances in yourself and emit a higher frequency that will attract relationships on a much higher level to again show you where you are at.
If there happens to be conflict or blockage in the relationship,
remember that it is a reflection of self.
Once you are connected to self and feel your path and your truth,
you can manifest a healthier, more whole reflection OF SELF,
through the spiritual growth vehicle of relationship.
I love the following quote ...
“If we enter a relationship with a weak or absent physical connection, what might that look like?
No chemistry, passion or excitement, or playful flirting and fun, or meaningful close feelings of intimacy, or deep levels of affection.
If we enter a relationship with a weak or absent emotional connection, what might that look like? No shared vulnerability, or healing of emotional wounds, understanding of your emotional states, or compassion or empathy for your experience, or real nurturing or heartfelt affection.
If we enter a relationship with a weak or absent intellectual connection, what might that look like?
No one to share your big picture interests, or one to talk with for long hours into the night, or one to share your favourite movies, music, theatre and books, or one to continually pique your interest and curiosity, or one to learn new things from.
If we enter a relationship with a weak or absent spiritual connection, what might that look like?
No shared values or vision, or a witness to your experiences, or one to support you as you navigate the inner realms, one to see and recognize your Higher Self, or a spiritual companion. “By Victoria Fann.
What and how do we see?
We do NOT see what is.
We do not see the WORLD or Relationship as it is
We see it as we are
We see it according to what we think
But we are not our minds
And we change our minds all the time
We see it according to what we feel
But emotional reasoning gets us into critical thinking errors
It feels bad…so it must be bad
We see it according to what we expect
But expectation is the breeding ground of disappointment
He or she should make me happy, but I am unhappy
Relationship is about converting every stumbling block into a stepping-stone
Trusting that every dense contraction will be followed by an expansion
Doing the work on the blockage –
chipping, hammering, chiselling, digging, drilling and excavating.
Deep inherited pain patterns and programs from the past
trigger the pain body ….
our partner is looking all too guilty in our mind as the one who did THIS to US.
We make them own up, promise, swear, commit, communicate, sign on the dotted line…
All the agreements - For ever this and never ever that!
But we have not seen the truth yet
The truth is that they are not there to make us happy
They crack us open
They expose every flaw
They leave us vulnerable
They apply a kind of stress that is constant, consistent, de-constructing us.
We are on this journey.
It’s our journey.
You cannot back out now, in the middle…
First understand your journey and your creation.
You won’t find your way out if you get lost in the little details of the story.
You have to focus on the learning and lesson,
not the trigger and person
Do not turn your heart into a fortress with sophisticated armoured stone walls,
Because your defence mechanisms take all your energy as you try to protect yourself
Do the alchemy individually, see the effect on the union and affect it has on the collective
You are a mystical magical meaning making machine of self-mastery
Elevate your relationship to its true purpose as you learn and evolve
you will deactivate the pain body and take your power back
you will take radical relationship responsibility - and make yourself happy